Hello Jim, I have been thinking about you this week. What a blow...like the air is out of my sails. I'm sure you feel the same. He was my friend for 25 years...I am so concerned for Dana. Words are weak. We posted a memorial section to our SIT Website so people could post their feelings. You are invited to participate.
Jo Addie
Jim,I had to finish it while i was emotional, my thumbnails of the design was better. I was terribly upset when I found out about Chris's passing. Growing up, Christopher Reeve as Superman was who I'd always wanted to be. I played Superman and a little red-haired girl named Wendy from down the street played Lois. We re-enacted the entire movie scene where she was trapped in her car, as well as all the other parts of the movie where Lois and Superman were together. Almost every day I wore a cape my grandmother sewed for me, where she ironed on a glittery gold colored 'S' on the back. I was 5 years old. I still look back and smile on those times. Thank you for that, Chris. You were my One True Superman. I still feel pretty emotional about it. Take care and thank you very much.
Marc Guerrero
I'm at a loss for words right now, I mean it's hard to believe that he'd been taken so quickly, but I'm pretty grief-stricken as a fan. I admired the man, not only because of his good portrayal of the man of steel, but how he overcame adversity, and became a real life hero for conquering his disability in many ways, and in turn, by achieving research and physical accomplishments that would limit anyone on his position, he became a real life superhero, and will no doubt create a legacy and role model for many others with disabilities and give them hope that though their body is down, their spirits are not out. His research has set a precedent and will help others in the future and by his selfless pursuit of overcoming his affliction, he's become a superhero on Earth, and he will be very sorely missed, particularly by people like me and all of you who grew up watching Reeve fight the forces of evil as Superman, and then saw him fight disability with the guts and selfless power o f the man of steel. God bless him and may his spirit live on forever. Reeve has given everyone something to keep with them for the rest of their lives.
Felix Vasquez Jr.
Christopher Reeve’s passing was tragic. The prayers of myself and my family are with everyone of the family. Through trials of life we learn that even the slightest beacon of hope can bring the fires of passion. Christopher was that light, He gave us Hope as Superman and a new belief that there was nothing we could not do. I pray that we all can learn from that lesson. God Bless.
Brian
Title: Show Me : A Tribute To Superman
"Dedicated To Christopher Reeve"
(C) 2004, JC Peralta
Traveled long and far,
Trying to find myself.
Trying to pull it off,
Being someone else.
Working nine to five,
A Hero overtime.
Trying to save the world,
In the nick of time.
Found a pretty girl,
Perfect time for love.
What am I to choose,
If in the end I'll lose?
I'll soar high in the sky,
I'll take her for a ride.
I'll make it through somehow,
And Love will show me how.
I never would have known,
That it would be this hard.
It's something I must do,
I feel it in my heart.
No struggle can defeat,
The strength that's within me,
It's what make us whole,
And what sets us free.
Simply show me how.
It's the only way.
I can overcome,
The struggles of each day.
JC Peralta
Jim, after the passing of Chris Reeve I once again went searching for all things Superman and came across your wonderful site again. Words can't express the loss that one feels right now. I never met the man but I 'knew' him through his movies. I remember you contacted me many years ago when the DVDs were released in regards to buying the region 4 Australian version of the DVD. Having checked out the Multimedia section of your site I haven't seen any images for the australian cover art at all, nor a link to a region 4 review. Below is a few links for you to include at your pleasure.
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Thanks in advance and hope to hear from you again soon.
Steve Koukoulas, Editor, DVDnet
Jim, First of all let me say thank you for sharing your love of the Christopher Reeve Superman movies. I am saddened at the death of Christopher Reeve. I was born on 9-27-1975. When I was born I had a hole in my heart and I had to have cleft pallet surgery. When I was 10 months old I had open heart surgery. I also had both of my ear drums totally rebuilt when I was 10 years old. My point to all of this is that no matter what kind of pain I was in whenever I saw Superman: The Movie I knew that everything was okay. Christopher Reeve not only inspired me as Superman he also inspired me as hero in real life. I know how it is to never give up hope. Please send my prayers to the Reeve family. I still believe that a man can fly. You may ask how do I know this? Well we now have a superman in heaven. Thanks again for all that you have done and for all that you will continue to do in the future.
Kenny Richardson, Clarkton, Missouri
To the Reeve Family, I would like to share with you the joy and wonder that Christopher Reeve brought to my life. As a young boy growing up with a real life Superman on the big screen, it made for many years of amazement, happiness and inspiration. Whilst the character of Superman is predominantly American, the beliefs that he adheres to resonate, like a beacon of hope, to the millions of us around the world. And whilst Christopher only played the character on four splendid occasions, he will remain in my mind, linked to those beliefs. Even after his days as Superman were over, Christopher continued to uphold those beliefs in the way he lived, and he showed us that happiness really does only come from within. I will miss Christopher Reeve. He was, and will always remain, my Superman. Thank you.
Manuel Bouw, Melbourne, Australia
I woke up as normal today, got up to go to work. I was in just my boxer shorts – not my Superman ones, I have them saved for special events or when I need extra support – I left my bedroom and my Mum was walking up the stairs… she said to me, “Your mate has died”. I didn’t know what she meant; she saw the look of confusion on my face and said,“Superman… Christopher Reeve has died”. I walked right back into my bedroom, saying nothing to girlfriend who was busy doing her hair. She is now a converted Superman fan, that’s what being with me for the last four years has done – in fact, it’s funny because her father’s uncle was Roy Field, who won an Oscar for the special effects on Superman: The Movie. I turned on the TV; she asked me what was wrong I told her, although I didn’t believe it. “It couldn’t be true” I thought I was dreaming. Well, the news was over 20 minutes away, but the BBC suddenly cuts to LA and their reporter confirms what my Mum had said, My friend was dead.
Superman The Movie is the reason I am who I am today – Chris Reeve made me believe in heroes, made me believe that Superman is real. Even after his accident he was still that hero, more so because of his determination and will to achieve the impossible. He is a real man of steel. This man is and will be forever my hero. He made me believe I could fly; he gave to hope where there was none. My heart goes out to his family, he was our Superman. I feel as if my childhood has died, maybe Chris is up there somewhere now walking and maybe even flying. Rest In Peace 'Friend'
James A. Redington
Christopher Reeve epitomized Superman in a way no one can, both on screen and off. I remember seeing the first clip back in 1978 of Superman rescuing Lois and the helicopter from the top of the Daily Planet and being completely dumbstruck. I pestered my father for days to see the film at the ABC on White ladies Road in Bristol, sadly no longer a cinema but soon to be a gym. It was an old school cinema, uncomfortable seats, dodgy sound but proper burgundy velvet drapes that as soon as they parted sent a tingle down my spine. The film like Star Wars blew me away. Chris bought a sense of honour and dignity to the role that no one could, The 2 hours after the film finished my dad myself and my brother spent waiting on a rain drenched night at the bus stop seemed insignificant to what I had witnessed, as the movie kept flying around my head. In every interview Chris gave he came across as a genuinely nice man who wasn't full of his own ego or self worth. He was inspiring as Superman, he was inspiring after the accident that left him paralyzed and most importantly he was inspiring as Christopher Reeve. I never met him but I felt like I knew him. He was a hero to an 8 year old boy and also to a 35 year old man. I and the world will miss him. Love,
Costas Vinieratos
Dear Mrs. Dana Reeve & family, Hello, my name is Martha Pennisi, I am 24 years old, and I live in Tel Aviv, Israel. I want to congratulate you on this web site that you have done in honor of our beloved Christopher Reeve. You have honored his memory his life and his death. I have been a fan of Christopher Reeve as long as I can remember my self. As the years past I grow to love him more, not only because he was my childhood hero, but also because I learn how grate actor and a grater person he was. I loved him truly, I always believed that one of these days he would walk again and everything would be ok, because he was always so optimistic about his sickness, that I believe he is going to be just fine. When you and Christopher ware here in Israel, unfortunately, I couldn’t meet you. But everyone who did meet him said that they ware surprised to meet such a great person, so polite and so pleasant man, and courageous man who fought not only for himself but for other disable people. Of course it wasn’t a surprise to hear that, I already new that. I received the terrible news on Monday morning (Israel time). My neighbor came and told me what was on the news, a strange thing happened by that time I was holding a shirt that I have, a black shirt with the symbol of superman on it. I can not explain but I just felt that I had to ware that shirt. And then she came and told me the horrible news. I was in mourning that day and I still am. It’s like a deep pain in the chest that doesn’t let go, it’s hard to accept that Christopher is gone. I felt so close to him and it made me so sad not only that we lost this great person but because of you too. Each night since then I go to sleep crying. I am truly sorry, I’m sure that for you it is unbelievable. I wanted to commend you and your family for all the care and love that you gave your beloved husband and father and for taking care on the foundation too, I’m sure that he appreciated that. You are a strong, loyal and wonderful woman, I don’t think there are a lot of women like you, I salute you for all your work. I’m sure that this is a hard time for you and for his children. Even that I am just a fan and I never met him in person, it’s very hard for me too I cried like I haven’t cried in years. I send you all my love and hoping that you and your family will stay strong as much as it is possible under the circumstances. Yours Truly,
Martha Pennisi
My first encounter with the work of Christopher Reeve was seeing his incredible performance as Superman. Incredible, because he managed to convince as two of the most complicated characters ever stretched across the big screen. Clark Kent, the self-effacing everyman - who does the small, mundane things in life that every one takes for granted. Without complaint. And Superman - often in the past, little more than an extension of the American flag - but due to Christopher’s accomplishments, he became a Universal language of hope that reached all of us. Bigger than life - but not detached. Superhuman - but also humane. Representing the best that any of us could dream to strive for. Ironic that Christopher should carry this defining battle into his real life. There is no doubt in my mind that Christopher Reeve would have walked again. His determination was written bold, the depth of his spirit; infinite. Christopher exemplified the phrase ‘to travel in hope’. Many of us may not achieve our dreams - but there is no shame in that. Life may be just the resolution to try. Perhaps that’s Christopher’s real legacy. The world has changed a lot in the last few years. We need hope more than ever. I think Christopher started something - and in lieu of a Superman, it will take a lot of Clark Kent’s to finish it. We can, at least, try.
Jeff Myers, England
It’s rare for me to go see a movie these days with the innocent enthusiasm that I saw the movie and TV adventures from my childhood. I could see them and be transported to fantastic worlds and fight with heroes and travel to space and fly. Chris Reeve was one of these heroes. he was one of the special people who gave me a chance to dream and to believe in the magic that´s only possible in our imaginations and in this amazing world of the written word and illustration and the big and small screen. When he flew and he went to the rescue and fought supervillains, he wasn´t an actor playing a role... to me, he was Superman. And even as I grew and matured, he continued to be, as an actor who played the part to perfection and as a man who fought with tremendous obstacles to keep going on with his life and helping others with similar needs. My condolences and best wishes for all those whose lives were touched by him, family, friends and fans. For if a man could fly, effects or not, special needs or not, that man was Mr. Reeve.
Alexandre Winck, Brazil
My name is Stephen Coffey, from Dublin in Ireland, I like many people was devastated about the loss of Christopher, since I was a child his performance of Clark Kent, and Superman, made me feel better about the world. It sounds stupid but when being scared during my childhood it was the image of Christopher as Superman brought comfort to me. I have enjoyed him in his other films too, Somewhere in time is another of my fav's. On 11th of Sept 2001, at the same time as the WTC got attacked, I was involved in a car accident, being rear ended by another car. I lost the use of both my legs and had other injuries. There were times I wanted to give up, but then I would think about Christopher, how through all that he had gone through he never gave up, how that he became stronger than the man of steel, he became stronger than any superhero. I want you and yours to know that I am now walking again, unaided, despite the doctors saying at the start that I would not. Christopher's example will never be forgotten, his life is a triumphant example of the human spirit and I personally owe his spirit a drink at the bar. Thank you for reading this.
Stephen Coffey, Dublin, Ireland
Dear all, My name is Philippe D’Imperio, born October 17th 1978 in Dublin - Ireland. First I would really like to present my condolences to you all. I know this is a painful moment but hopefully, this tribute will show you a lot of people are mentally supporting you, and that everyone will miss Christopher Reeve. Very honestly, as thousands of other people, I grew up living on M. Reeve's adventures as the Man of Steel. In fact, he inspired me in a lot of ways and actually had a big influence on my life. It’s probably hard to believe …. but it’s true! First of all after watching Superman 1 one evening (I was probably 4 years old), I went into my room and sat in front of the light bulb (turned on !!) and sat staring at it for minutes and minutes, hoping I would gain super powers, as Clark Kent gained his from kryptonite !! As a result … I now have to wear glasses !! More importantly, through his movies, M. Reeve gave me my dreams…and clearly gave me an important side of my personality! My “love” for the Superman character and for M. Reeve actually make my friends call me Clark Kent. Also, today, I live in Paris – France and I have started an acting career. I have a passion for cinema since as far as I can remember … but that passion definitely was triggered by the movies I loved as a child, and largely by the Superman movies. If I succeed in that career … it will be thanks to the dreams Mr. Reeve gave me. Finally, I must say that I was very touched by his accident some years ago. But, I really admire his courage! I know it was an extremely hard challenge for him to survive under such difficult physical conditions, but he held on !!This is probably the most important way he influences me today : no matter how difficult things can be, you have to hold on and believe. That’s exactly what he did, and with your help, he succeeded in showing the World that courage is a power we ALL have.Christopher Reeve is my biggest hero !! ... on screen and in real life !! I regret his departure, but he will never be forgotten and through his courage, he will always symbolize heroism.Thank you all for the support you gave him in the hardest of times.Best wishes to you all,
Philippe D’Imperio
I grew up in a small town called Fairfield, Iowa. I was born in 1974. I can fondly remember growing up with 2 cousins born the same year as me. We were all 3 huge superhero fans, and were always more into DC comic characters then we were into Marvel. Those were (until the marriage to my wife and the birth of my 2 children) the best times of my life. We used to watch the Superman movies whenever we got a chance, wishing they were shown more, or that the next movie would come sooner. We had no idea who Christopher Reeve was, we knew we were watching Superman. As the years went by, I kept watching Superman whenever one of the movies would show on TV, still eyeing it like it was the first time I've seen it. Then, it happened. Christopher Reeve was injured. Suddenly the definition between Superman and Mr. Reeve was evident. It hit home that the actor was vulnerable to accident. But, as the years went by, I paid close attention whenever I saw an interview or biography about Christopher to see what the latest advancements were, praying he'd get more movement. Then, he was gone. I watched a biography on A&E just last week about him and learned so much more about him. I learned how he fought for what he believed in (even before he was famous) and it wasn't for things that would help himself out. When I saw how he helped out with the Special Olympics and others who were paralyzed, I was touched and realized something. Superman fought for truth, justice and the American way. What fits that bill more than helping people who either can't help themselves, or who need help helping themselves? It was then that I realized I was right when I was young. I wasn't watching Christopher Reeve, I was watching Superman the whole time. I know his legend as a man, not just as Superman will live on forever. He'll always be with his family, friends, and even people who never met him. Take care-
Troy Heckethorn
P.S. I will be purchasing the Superman boxed set for my son to see and will always explain to him who Superman really was. Just as a side note, he has had his costume for 2 months now for Halloween- Superman. Christopher Reeve was Superman...at least he was my first experience in knowing the legend. I remember as a young child getting our first sattelite system. Not the new compact kind, but the big bulky "have to get the whole neighborhood to come turn it" sattelite. The very first image I saw on the television after it was hooked up was the fight scene between Superman and Clark Kent in the junkyard in Superman III. When the installer changed the channel to see if all channels were working I cried. I became a lifetime supporter and lover of everything Superman because of how accurately Mr. Reeve portrayed the values that Superman possesses. I was a great admirer of his other works as well. He will be missed but not forgotten. God Bless.
Tom McCall, High School Teacher and Coach, Zwolle, Louisiana
The man of steel has risen to Heaven. You embodied courage, devotion and perseverance. I did not know you personally but many praised your kindness and humanity. To me you'll still be faster than the train, faster than the bullet, the one and only Superman. I send my deep prayers to your loved ones and to you in the hope you'll catch them and smile. Be proud, Christopher of what you did. You will be forever an example for many people around the globe. Peace to you and your family,
Christopher Thirty
I wish there was something I could say or do to take away the pain we all feel, none more deeply then the family. Christopher was a truly special man in my life. I never had the chance to meet him, but the thought of him and of his triumph through adversity has always been an inspiration. When I have been in a tight spot and fear was creeping in, he would just sort of "pop" into my mind. Being in the US Navy I have had my fair share of these moments in the past 8+ years. The thought of his strength and willingness to go on has been a subject discussed many times over the last 4 years, both on and off the battle field. He gave courage and hope to so many and will continue to do so for all time. When we heard the news about his passing some of my buddies and I took timeout to say a quite prayer. My CPO came along and started to berate us for being lazy. When we told him what we were doing he joined in. No matter where I go in this world, he will always live on in my heart and soul. My thoughts prayers are with you his family and loved ones...always.
Scott Hedlund
I happened to be looking through the Superman homepage links and came across the site and saw the tribute page so I decided to write down a tribute. I never knew Christopher Reeve, but I like to say he was a friend, not to just to those who knew him and were his friends but everyone he touched through his films and his actions. My earliest memories of Superman were the film, and I was hooked. To me he was a Superman, he could do no wrong to the 5 year old that I was and he still couldn't do no wrong in the eyes of the 15 year old I was when he suffered his accident. It was his accident that really made me see what kind of man Christopher Reeve was, he was a man who should be respected, praised, and loved. I still remember the day I learned that the University of Wisconsin Hospital was going to research Stem cells I thought to myself, maybe he'll finally walk again like he did in that super bowl ad, you know what one I'm talking about. I leave you with this, Christopher Reeve is not dead. He will never die, for true heroes never really die.They live on in the hearts of those they touched. Though he has left his body, and moved on to a better place he has not left us.As the old saying goes,"The Spirit lives as long as someone who lives remembers it."
Ryan Steven Witalison, Madison, WI
Childhood heroes are supposed to phase out once you get older...but, for any that know me, I’m a huge Superman fan...and...this hurts for some reason. Call it I’m really sad...i know the character is fictional...the story fictional...but Christopher Reeve made that larger than life for me...i used to say when I was little, that i based my life off of Superman mottos and the way he did things...and to extent I still do...I admired him for his role...and after his accident in 1995, admired him more for his spirit...but, it's hard hearing your childhood hero has died...there is no other Superman in my mind...except him...I’m just really sad right now....I've watched those movies hundreds and hundreds of times...I have videos of myself when I was 3, walking around in a diaper...carrying my superman action figures...singing the theme song...I always wanted to meet him...to thank him for inspiring my life...i know he hated at times, being typecast as Superman...that's understandable for an actor...but it was his ability, and his portrayal that made him a hero to me...not his super powers, not his costume, not his theme music...it was his ability to convey that his character cared...I’m having a hard time writing now...I’m scared to even hear the theme music, for fear of breaking down in front of people...but...if you know me...you know what this means to me...I can't begin to imagine what his friends and family are going through right now. I can only wish them the best and give my sympathy for their loss. I don't want to sound like a star struck fan, but i am. When I think about his contributions to his work, his life, his fans, his family and friends, it makes me feel like a little kid again, sitting in front of the TV, eyes wide, watching my hero, save the day. He never had to wear the cape to save lives. I really wish i could have met him. I really wish i could have thanked him. Thanked him for his inspiration, and thank him for shaping my life.Thank you Mr. Reeve, thank you for being the hero I could only dream of being.
Vince Renda, Age 21, Dearborn, Michigan
To Christopher and the Reeve family, Stay strong, and always remember that there is always a future, for there are no endings in the life of the soul, only new beginnings. The Warmest condolences from a Superman and Christopher Reeve fan.
Kehinde Adeyemi
Dear Reeve Family, I wish to tell you, I’m sorry for your loss of a man that was a husband, father, son, humanitarian, actor and a mythic legend of this terra firma. As with the ages past, we see and meet people that define, change, establish and bring about divine balance to life’s continuum. One can never be at ease to death, but one and all of you should know that life is a continuum to a new paradigm and Christopher will always be in spirit to how he was in this plane of life, a force of goodness and a Mahdi. He is to you as everyone is to humanity, a divine soul that is embodiment of compassion and abundance among the oneness of life. I remember when I was four years old in 1978, and being unfortunately too young to see your husband/father’s movie was not surprising shocking since I was the youngest of three and being spoiled to the alternative superman the movie apparel and toys. What has left an indelible and messianic mark on my life was looking at and assembling the superman/U.S.A puzzle. It signified truth, strength, boundless in mind and spirit. Christopher brought these gifts to the world. Please never forget this. Now, that I’m 30 and a spiritualist, the before half has never left me in the esoteric form. It’s hard to speak of someone you have never met and never will, but in the distance Christopher was a heroic role model for me growing up. Thus, I wish to say to you this, that a passing has surfaced, but a celebration of a continuum begins. Know that we all in the physical form are impermanent. Yet, in spirit we are continuous in all of our missions, love, compassion, will, strength and grace. I know that you as a family will find all peace in this time and forthcoming. Also, there is always truth in the goodness of knowing that you all will resurrect to a new bountiful happiness and grow stronger as a family for many, many years to come. Never a day will this be forgotten. Never more such will the days forth be taken for granted. You as a family have set a paramount in life as a whole that brightly burns a sun that shines upon humanity that makes us all super in the face of adversity with unwavering nobility. “Always look to the heavens, for he that was with you always has never left, and won’t ever.” To me and others, Christopher will always be a Man of Humanity, but never as equal to immeasurable how he was to you: A Man of All Purity. Please accept my words to you as a continually hope and nourishment in spirit, that it brings forth comfort and ever growing confidence, and light in your family in the years forth to come. Bless you all. Yours truly,
Curtis M. Joseph
Christopher Reeve will always be our true hero. I speak for not only Ilford, London but for the world. We grew up on his films and he gave out his strength to us via his magical persona. He will be long remembered. My regards,
Vijay D. Varu, Ilford, London
Christopher Reeve is a source of strength for so many people not only as Superman but also as a man who suffered a terrible accident and fought to survive and to regain his life and not giving into despair. He is a Valiant man who will be sorely missed by all, not one person I know, has not been touched and saddened by Christopher Reeve passing. For me and so many He is a "Superman" .and to his Family and Friends I wish to offer my heartfelt condolences to you all, May you all, in your sorrows find some strength in the days and years ahead. This morning I entered my local Church for the first time in a many years and prayed for him and for you all.
Gerard M. Duffy, Dublin, Ireland
It is with great sadness that I send this email, losing a loved one is never easy, especially when they are taken away too early!I know you realise how much Christopher meant to people, for a man coming up to my 30’s I feel that a part of my childhood has also crossed over, as I sit here typing this and looking a the superman shield tattooed on my arm, I hope you don’t think it is too strange if I tattoo a tribute to Christopher underneath it.Heart goes out to all of you…I hope you take comfort in knowing that Christopher is now looking down at everyone and that he does not need wires or a team of FX specialists to fly…..Angels have wings of there own. Lots of love,
Jonathan & Emma Walker, Great Britain
As a 35-year-old woman with Muscular Dystrophy I grew up knowing Christopher as Superman and admired him for his integrity and strength. But who I remember him as is a Humanitarian and Advocate for ALL people with disabilities. He is a true hero and will always be remembered and appreciated. His inspiration taught that true strength is in the heart and we can over come many obstacles.Thank You For Being A True Leader And Being That Strength. Sincerely,
Christine Robinson, Canada
Move over God, Superman's coming. Love,
Dave and Kelly
I would like to express my sincere sadness and sympathy to you at this time of loss. Christopher Reeve was the shining example as to what a true hero is in every since of the word. He brought my generation the belief in Superman and the coming generation that through all adversity there is nothing that can not be overcome. Even though personally I never met Christopher Reeve I feel like I knew him like a friend who always stood by me through anything unfailing his words and his cause strike a cord in me every time I hear one of his Lines or Hear him speak on Stem Cell Research. He was like an angel sent down to show us that good and Decency still existed. I thank God Every day I had the chance to experience such a Profound and Outstanding Individual. May God Bless you in all you do and may he see you through your time of sorrow.Sincerely,
Jonathan
This is History
Moving down a path, drifting
Through a hall of moving faces
Through a myriad of places
Strolling the mystery, history
So many things to catch an eye
Things to rightfully admire
Set a mind on fire
So many things to see, be
In the walls walked past
And image appears and grows
Well defined as a person knows
And blurs the images ‘round it
This is history
This is nation’s memory
This is immortality
It is nigh invulnerable
It soars above time
He rides high in history, and won’t fall from memory.
Steve Orlando
Dear Mrs. Reeve and family, I am 18 years old, and I just finished high school. Chris was always an inspiration to me, if not in the form of mild mannered Clark Kent, or the heroic Superman, but as the legendary Christopher Reeve. I was saddened when I had heard the news of his accident, but proud at the advances he achieved because of it. He will always be a hero in the hearts of many, and an inspiration to us all. He's in a place now where he doesn't need help to fly. Sincerely,
Kevin E. Curdgel
Dear Jim, I can recall I believe that early Sunday morning returning from work from my night shift at the post office coming home and going thru my normal ritual of checking my e-mails, surfing the web particularly the Superhero hype website just to keepmyself updated in what was going on when all of a sudden the image of Chris posed as Superman was beginning to slowly materialize which I thought at first that there was an update about the new Superman movie but then when the image was fully realized I was totally shocked and dismayed when I noticed a birthday year and current year hyphenated, the reality had set in that he had passed away. I was so sad with disbelief that he had been taken away so tragically without any chance for survival. All I can say that his bravery, courage, and all the things he believed in will truly survive and endure as well as his timeless portrayal of Superman will live in our hearts forever because his deeds far eclipsed the character he played. My heart goes out to his family. Sincerely,
Carmine Bastian, Mt. Vernon, New York
I was four years old when Superman the Movie came out so I can't honestly say that I don't recall seeing it upon it's theatrical release. As the eldest of five children I do remember growing up poor. Many times we couldn't afford to go to the movies like many other young families did. Though we knew of Superman from the old tv show and comic books, we saw Christopher Reeve as Superman for the first time on our 13" black and white tv. In fourth grade, I got braces and the dental center where my orthodontist kept his office operated a small theater room to occupy patients waiting for appointments. My mother worked retail so many days my father was left with all five of us. The small theater played movies on laserdisc and the most often requested movie was Superman. My father took us to that theater every chance he could, even when I didn't have an appointment. Christopher Reeve quickly became a much loved member of our family. As the years have gone by we've collected the movies on video and DVD but nothing will compare to those first years. I have two nieces and two nephews who have grown to love Superman as much as my parents, siblings and I do. In 1995 when Christopher Reeve suffered the accident that paralyzed him from the neck down our family was deeply affected. Christopher Reeve was so much a hero on screen and in real life. He's inspired so many people to overcome obstacles regardless of perceived disabilities. Mr. Reeve may have lost the use of his body but his heart and soul remained intact and the loving gentle person he was endeared him to all. Sadly, my father passed away suddenly almost three years ago. Many nights since then I've thought about what I learned from my father: Fight hard for what you believe in. Nothing is impossible; and most importantly Always show those you love how much you care. I believe Christopher Reeve lived his life with those same principles in mind. He brought much joy to my childhood. My sympathy, love and deep appreciation go out to his family at this time. He is a man truly missed. The following are lines quoted from the song "Kite" from U2. The lead singer dedicated this song to his father upon his death. I dedicated it to my father when he passed. I was listening to the song again a few days ago and a couple of the lines made me think of Christopher Reeve...
"I'm not afraid to die
I'm not afraid to live
And when I'm flat on my back
I hope to feel like I did...
Who's to say where the wind will take you
Who's to say what it is will break you
I don't know
Which way the wind will blow
Who's to know when the time has come around
Don't want to see you cry
I know that this is not goodbye..."
Sincerely,
M. Flores
I know this may sound like a hoax, but believe me this is totally real. In 1987 Chris Reeve went to a young mans home in Brooklyn, New York. He came to this boys house because this boy believed then that a man can fly. He believed that superman was more then just the worlds greatest superhero. This boy was a cancer survivor and made a wish to the make a wish foundation for children with cancer. This young man was in a hospital in NYC undergoing a surgery when he saw a picture of Chris in the superman costume and knew then and there that his wish was to meet the man who played superman. Anyway Chris received word of his wish and agreed to meet the boy and his family. Chris spent several hours at this child's house answering any question he may of had. I know all this because I was this young man. My name is Justin Shapiro I’ve been a Superman fan all my life. The way I’ve been told once I saw the Superman movies I was hooked. I would fly around the house in my underoos and towel believing I was Superman. I believed Chris was Superman. He believed he was Superman he told me if they wires were cut that he felt he would still fly. When I heard about his accident my family and I were in shock and couldn't believe what had happen. It was then I wrote Chris a letter explaining who I was and what he did for me. He believed in me and i believed in him when he said he was going to walk again. I am truly sorry for the tragic news about his death. However, we can not stop believing and we can not give up on his fight. Now while you may not believe my story I figure I would try and let the world know what he did for me. If you do pass along this message to his wife. Dana. Please send my love and prayers for my Superman. Thanks,
Justin
When I was a kid growing up, you had three heroes to look up to. Indiana Jones, Luke Skywalker, and Superman. That was it. Looking at how I turned out today, I now see how much Christopher Reeves' Superman influenced me. I have an 8 year old nephew, who lives with my sister, (a single parent). Aside from my father, I am the only man in his life. I spend every day with him after school and we have an amazing friendship. To him, Superman is me. He looks to me for what's right and wrong, he looks to me for what's hip and cool, he looks for my approval a lot of the time too. Imagine Luke Skywalker trying to teach him how to be a man? How would Indiana Jones teach him respect for others? Well who taught me to stand up for your beliefs? That you should stand up for what's right? To be a leader? Superman. And when I say Superman, I mean Christopher Reeve. The comics have been around forever, and created into many different interpretations of what a man of steel looks like. But you ask anyone, even the hardcore comic junky, what does Superman look like? They all reply: Christopher Reeve. On screen he conveyed to me, way before I ever heard of a 'Spider-Man', that with great power comes great responsibility. He showed that a man who is stronger than a locomotive can feel pain. And most important, he showed me a man who would do anything in his power for the ones he loved. And that even though some days you may feel alien to the rest of the world, your friends and family will always be there for you. Christopher Reeve is Superman to me. There is no 'one or the other'. When I heard of his tragic accident I was crushed by the news. My hero was crippled in an accident. And when the world heard the message in the days to follow: "I will walk again.", everyone in the world knew he would. Film hero transcended into real life as he paved the way for spinal cord research, a crusade that will lead the way well into the future. I hope he knew just how much of an impact he had on the world for that. There will be many more super hero films in the future, there will be many more super hero comic books as well. But they will all be in the shadow of the one true Superman, in our fantasies and in life. The world will never see another man like him. Rest in Peace Christopher Reeve. Your fan from boyhood to man,
Jason Brasher
Hi, I love your site, really heartbroken about Mr. Reeve's passing, he's been my hero for 20 years now, on the screen and in real life. Attached is a colored version of a tribute editorial I did for my college newspaper. Thanks,
Dan Wyke
Dear family of Christopher Reeve, I am a fourteen year old named Tony Piccirillo and I am a fan of your Christopher Reeve. I know he is with God in heaven and hope he is will always be happy. I am sorry for your lost and I now you must be thinking, "He doesn't know how I feel" and I don't, but I did cry when I heard he died. It seemed as if I lost one of my own family members. The date of his death will forever be burned into my mind... Sunday... October Tenth, 2004 at the age of 52. He was my hero... I looked up to him and I still look up to him... He is a very important person in my life. He encouraged me to always do the right thing even when there was a slim chance of winning if you did. I didn't know him until I saw the Superman movies when I was really young. I use to go to the library and rent his Superman movies every time I went there. To me Christopher Reeve was Superman. He defined the role of Superman. Whenever I see another interpretation of Superman I compare it to Christopher Reeve's performance as if he were really Superman. I am currently working on a script for a Superman fan film that I will dedicate to Christopher Reeve when I'm done making the movie. Christopher Reeve was a very nice person... He was and still is my favorite actor. His foundation helped many people and that's why I know he is in heaven. When I grow up I want to be a man like Christopher Reeve.
Tony Piccirillo
As a child, I remember watching for "Superman" for the first time and feeling a sense of decency and good in what I saw. I saw someone that I wouldn't be able to be like, but that could emulate the qualities of courage and optimism in the face of difficulties. When the riding accident took place, I remember feeling a sense of awe and humility for what Christopher Reeve was facing. He didn't face it with a bad attitude or one that was ready to give up, but he faced it with the same Courage and optimism that I saw all those years ago in the Superman films. I saw what it means to be a real "Superman." Years ago, I was burned severely, and the only thing my parents could think of doing was have me watch all of those films to show me that I would be able to handle my adversity. Seeing what Christopher Reeve did and how he fought, has been an inspiration. Thank you for sharing him with the world, and for helping him have the strength and courage to continue on. He will always be "Superman" to me.Sincerely;
Julio Camacho, Lehi, Utah
Writing this e-mail I am struck by own unoriginality. How do I pay tribute to my hero without repeating the sentiments of countless others? I shouldn't even try, I should just be honest.In the early eighties, I was a toddler and I had Superman on video (taped from television). Sure, at first it was all about the bright colors and the flying man; but anyone who knows me knows that that that movie has helped shape me into the man I am today, and the man I hope to become. Superman made me want to be incorruptible. Pure. I am not a religious man and as such I work toward no paradise and I fear no hell, rather I live my life to the highest standard my flaws will allow because when I was a child I KNEW that man should be like Superman. That this was the way to live a life. Christopher Reeve's performance shaped my life and shapes it still. In his book "Still Me" Christopher told the story of a film idea that he had about a man in a wheel chair venturing onto a boat at night. In recent months I have been working on a screenplay based on that idea that I had hoped to send him for his approval. He influences me still. When I heard of Christopher's accident I was in shock but hearing him speak and reading his books I believed that one day he would walk again. I am vengeful of fate for putting him in that wheel chair and I am bitter that he has been taken out of it. But when these emotions pass I am left with a sense of aching sadness. That we should lose a man who defined popular culture with his talent and then drove modern science and politics with his character is grossly unfair. Life owed him more. I am thankful that he touched my life. Today I think of Dana, Matthew, Alexandra, and Will and I send you my deepest condolences such that they are. I just wanted to convey how much your father and husband meant to a kid from England that he never met.
Matthew Daly, London, England
Dear Jim, As the passing of Chris Reeve (and how his life touched each of ours) begins to settle into our consciousness, I have reflected on the impact the undying image of Superman has on my life. If you will bear with me, I would like share some of those feelings with you and with Chris’ family. For as long as I can remember (40 + years), Superman has been my one enduring hero. He is everything I ever wanted to be; strong, compassionate, fearless and unerringly good. George Reeves portrayal set the tone of Superman for me for television and movies, however; the comic book held sides of a more anguished soul. This was a Superman who could never be a man. He would forever wrestle with his godlike powers that were reigned in by his simple upbringing in a small rural American town. Over time I discovered that it was the struggle that truly made this character what he was, indestructible on the exterior, yet fully vulnerable on the inside. It is in this ongoing paradox that the true nature of a superman resides. In 1978 the multi-million dollar production of Superman needed to fulfill the mythos of this powerfully weak man to meet the expectations of the character I had developed over the years. With apprehension on a cold, Minnesota winter night, I waited in line on opening day not being certain if I would be disappointed or rewarded. The entire movie showed me how much the Man of Steel had grown uť since the 1950s. He was sent to Earth with the mission to guide us to be a great people. Here was the outsider (in Smallville) who struggled with his knowledge that he could do virtually anything; yet was reminded by his Earth father’s simple wisdom, You are not here to score touchdowns. When Chris Reeve first appeared on screen in costume, my vision of what the Superman would truly look like was happily fulfilled. No one could have looked more like the Curt Swan artwork I had come to equate as Superman than Chris.His next task was to infuse into the character the soul struggle I expected. Once again, the talent of this actor took the larger than life character and gave him that conflict. In his eyes you could see the determination to do what was right, yet the struggle of am I doing what is right. The scene of Lois’s death showed the pain and loss; later (in Superman II) his decision to forsake his powers for her love; his (all to human) realization that forsaking his responsibility was selfish; his fight to reclaim his destiny; and finally the isolation demanded by being Superman as he releases Lois from the memory of their love. This was a three dimensional Superman. This was the indestructible/vulnerable being that was both blessed and cursed as Superman. When Chris suffered his accident in 1995, I saw the reversal of this indestructible/vulnerable character into the reality of the vulnerable body with the indestructible soul. His inspiration touched many. His unwillingness to surrender to an injury that seemed hopeless showed utter determination. Yet, he would be trapped in a body that could no longer truly feel the physical touch of another. Trapped, struggling for the very air to breathe. He would be trapped with dreams and aspirations that would be difficult to achieve. Trapped with the one power that remained to him; his ability to inSpire. In embracing this power, and using it for the good of all, Chris Reeve became Superman. In closing, to all those who are saddened by Chris’ all to early passing, I keep reading that many think it is a disappointment that his dream of walking again was never realized. I say to those people, remember that he never needed to be able to walk again; Superman can fly; and I believe that this man (Chris Reeve) can fly. Sincerely,
Mike Crawford
Reeve was a hero to many, both on and off the silver screen. In a red and blue costume and in a wheelchair, he gave hope to all and showed us the strength and courage of a superhero. He made us believe that man with an injured spine could one day walk no matter what odds were against him, and he made us believe a man could fly. He especially did this for a five-year-old boy.I would like you all to come with me on a trip through time for a moment. The year is 1978. A little boy is sitting in the cinema with his parents.He has a big smile on his face because he is seeing something he had previously only seen in the comic books he had always loved to read. An old friend he had met two years ago was right there flying through the air with his red cape streaming in the wind and bright, primary-colored costume with a familiar red S shaped shield on his chest. That's right, Superman was up there for the wide-eyed five-year-old boy to enjoy. The Man Of Steel was on the silver screen allowing the boy to dream. At that moment, everything was bigger than life for the boy. The boy learned that Superman was just a fictional character as he got older,but that didn't stop him from dreaming. In fact, that's why that boy is sharing his memory of seeing Superman fly on the big screen with you right now. Yes, that boy was me, and Christopher Reeve allowed me, and others like me, to dream. I guess in my own way I want to thank him for that. Thank you Christopher for letting this big-eyed boy dream again and again. Reeve went from accomplished actor to activist for spinal cord research after a fall from a horse paralyzed him. His Christopher Reeve Paralysis Foundation is working tirelessly to help others with spinal cord injuries have less difficulty with medical treatments and working to hopefully find a cure for those paralyzed due to spinal injury. Financial donations are currently being accepted in Reeve's honor. I feel like I lost an old friend today, also if I never met Christopher Reeve. However, my wife Laura told me today as I wiped the tears from my eyes after hearing of Reeve's passing that she believes he is walking again,and maybe even flying, wherever he is now. I'd like to believe that Laura is right. After all, he made us believe a man could fly in the the cinema. Why can't we believe that same man is flying in the place he's in right now?
James Heath Lantz
I can so vividly remember the very first time Christopher Reeve came into my life. It was cold, wet January day in Sydney Australia in 1979 and my mother had 4 children under the age of 11 to keep entertained for the afternoon. My parents had separated in the months before, and being theeldest of 4 children and the only girl, I couldn't understand why my father had left me. We were all trying to cope the best we could. From that dayon Christopher was the place in my heart and my head I escaped to when I couldn't cope with what was going on around me. From my parents divorce, my battle with bulimia and subsequent diagnosis with clinical depression, he was always there, always a constant and always an inspiration to carry on. Like friend you can count on no matter what time of the day or night. I have loved Christopher since I was 11 years old and think wow, he has been with me most of my life. My only regret is that I didn't get to meet him in person, however, I am happy to live vicariously through my best friend Robyn who was fortunate enough to meet Christopher on his trip to Australia last year.My deepest sympathies go out to Dana, Will, Matthew and Alexander on the loss of husband and father. I have no words to express my sorry deeply enough. From his death though, I have heard from many old friends I have lost touch with over the years, some of whom I haven't heard from in over 10 years. Just calling to say, 'Hey, I heard about Christopher Reeve and I'm sorry, how are you?' Thank you for bringing these people back into my life. And thank you for being a part of my life.
Jody Henderson, Melbourne. Australia
Such a great loss for our world. I was informed on the "Super-Hero Hype" forums that you were to send tributes to Dana Reeve - I think this is fabulous idea, please accept my tribute (attached.). Thank you very much for your gratitude towards this great man, and thank you on behalf of the millions of other Christopher Reeve and Superman fans out there. P.S. I am very impressed by the artwork on your website! Thanks again,
Ross Chambers, Belfast, Northern Ireland
Christopher Reeve...words can't even express on how much of an impact you had on my life. Your an icon a legend but above all else my hero. I was just a little 4 year old when i first saw Superman 4 Quest For Peace. After the movie i realized you would be my hero forever i quickly told my mom after the movie to buy the other three she did. All through my childhood I cherished the movies and things you did. I wasSuperman 5 years in a row for Halloween. Then I saw somewhere in time and after i saw that i begged my parents for a replica pocket watch like the one in the movie. They bought it for me on my birthday. Then your accident happened and I was about 10 years old. My heart was broken and my mind was in disarray. How could this of happened i questioned myself he's Superman. After the tragic accident i saw you in an interview telling the reporter someday you will walk and the reporter said "yeah we'll take a walk down the beach when you get better" then you said "that’s absolutely doable I will see you there". That brought a smile from ear to ear to my face. All through your trauma and recuperation I made countless prayers in hope of you walking again. Now I am 17 years old I wake up one morning and went down stairs to get ready for school my dad walked up to me and said Christopher Reeve died last night. It was like a bullet to my heart. I had a lump in my throat. I slowly walked upstairs with tears beginning to come down my cheek. I was speechless all I could do was cry. My mom came upstairs and hugged me. I couldn’t speak at all. It was an unreal feeling i couldn’t believe it. I slowly walked over to the CD player and put in the Superman soundtrack blasting the theme throughout the house. It made me think of all the memories with my brother who also loves Reeve fighting over who stands in front of the tv when superman smiles and waves at the end of the movie. I went to school speechless all day my friends wondered what was the matter, but I just ignored them and said nothing. I went home and put in Superman 4 Quest For Peace and it made me feel like I was 4 again all over it made me smile. Christopher Reeve i will never forget the precious memories you left me. "Superman will never fade away because he's a good friend and everybody needs a friend." -Christopher Reeve-
Marty Burke
Hi, I am Charles June, from Pascagoula, Mississippi. I have a five year old son. He heard the news about "Superman is dead" from the TV and wondered how this could have happened. He asked very innocently and very seriously, “Was he just fighting someone" and that's how it happened? He said, he didn't think Superman could die. I told him Superman is not dead. He will never die. He will always live on in the comic books, and on TV in cartoons. I told him about Christopher Reeve. How he played Superman in the movies. That it was he, who had passed away. He accepted that and asked whether there would be any more Superman cartoons or comics? I told him ,"that there would always be Superman, the man of steel." Sincerely,
Charles June
Dear Jim, I hope you remember me, its me, shay, from Tel Aviv, Israel. I wrote you last year when Chris visited my country and I gave to Diana de Rosa a hand painted superman statue which I made, and wanted to give him personally and tell him how much I appreciate and love him, unfortunately I came too late to the hotel and they were on their dinner and last preparations to return to the states, so I called Diana a few days later and she told me that Chris saw my gift and was very excited and even had tears. Now, after the terrible news, I feel a deep hole in my heart like it's a bad dream and maybe he will come back to us? I’m 32 years old Jim, and for me superman in far more than a guy that shoots lasers from his eyes, it's the essence of my childhood and I will never forget when I went with my mom to watch the movies when I was a kid,I wasn't popular in school and many kids teased me for nothing and beat me for no reason so I came home crying and played the tape of superman and for 2 hours I felt like a superman! Chris/superman was EVERYTHING I wanted to be as a man and he inspired me on every aspect in my life! I will carry him inside of me forever Jim. I’m sad, SO sad. Please send my condolences to his family. My mom told me today that his suffering is over, deep inside me I know she's crying with me, crying with you all. Thanks Jim, for everything,
Shay Ron, a friend
have watched in awe since I was able to remember (my mother tells me from when I was 3) the way Christopher Reeve brought Superman to life. I am 27 now and the films have remained by some margin the most wonderful films I have ever seen. Even my four year old is more grown up than me when we are watching the films together I just adore the wonderful performance Christopher puts in. I don't know what it is about him that makes me feel a connection, I didn't know him yet I feel like I knew him I feel like I have lost him. Only a very special person can have this affect on us who have not met him, those who have only seen him on the "big screen". I think it is because of the way he is on the screen, as a child you wanted to be him you grew up feeling that he would be there for you, as an adult you see all the subtle wonderful acting presence he has a "Clark Kent" and "superman" I will always be amazed at how he did that. When he had his accident I was sick to my stomach I was hurting in a way I couldn't believe, to hear of his death 9 years later saddens me so much I s
till am finding it hard to accept. He did so much good and has brought so much hope to many not just the disabled but doctors and scientists this shows us all how much one man has done, so much when we all do so little he didn't accept the word "can't", this just makes it harder to accept he's gone. I feel awful as well because I know his family must be inconsolable my thoughts go out to them. I will miss Christopher Reeve and even though I did not know him I can not believe he is gone, he will live with me forever. I will continue to watch his films in honor memory but it will be sadder to watch them now. I am sure I will shed many more tears for the man who brought us all such wonder. I know its been said but he really is Superman. Rest in Peace Christopher.
Jonathan Halliwell
Dear Sir, My name is Saurabh Sukhani. I live in India. I am a big fan of Christopher Reeve’s and I think all the work he has done in his life whether its Superman Movie or Charity has been superb. Though i have never met Christopher Reeves but whatever I have read and known about him, makes me feel he is one of the finest man I have ever known. Christopher will be really missed by his family and his fans.I want to say thank you (Jim) for setting up a wonderful website. Regards,
Saurabh Sukhani
What can be said about a man who shapes ones childhood? There was no one I wanted to be more than Superman. When I was a child I thought Christopher Reeve actually was Superman. I thought he could do anything. When I rode a train I knew he would be fixing tracks for a safe passage. If I traveled by plane, I knew I would be safe because he would catch us if something happened to the engines. He could stop earthquakes, turn the world backwards, bounce bullets off his chest, walk through fire, fly in space and he always stopped the bad guys. Christopher Reeve was my idol, my hero. He was Superman. I was in high school when I heard about his accident, and I was devastated. I remember thinking “How could this happen to Superman? How could this happen to my hero?” Then I realized how ridiculous that must sound. He was Christopher Reeve, I told myself. He was just an actor who played Superman. But somewhere deep in my heart, in a part of me that was unwilling to let go of those childhood thoughts and feelings, I knew he was Superman. As I grew older, and a little wiser, I realized he was. Anyone who has the strength to fight on in the face of seemingly unbeatable odds, never giving up, is a true hero in anybodies eyes. I think Christopher Reeve put it best when he said, “The only limits you have are those you put on yourself.” He, much like Superman, was always fighting for “Truth, Justice and the American Way,” for those who couldn’t and I am sure he still is. Sincerely,
Mark LeMieux, Director, Platypus Productions
To say that a man whom I have never met or spoken to is the singly most influential person on my life, might be hard for some people to understand. However, when Christopher Reeve suffered his horse ridding accident that left him paralyzed millions of fans sent him letters expressing sympathy andsupport for there fallen hero. This support was primarily geared towards the fact that to millions around the world Christopher Reeve is Superman, and always will be. Mr. Reeve actually flew on screen in a way previously and presently not emulated. He saw an obligation to develop the character further, by making the barrier between Clark and Superman far greater than just putting on a pair of glasses. He changed his tone of voice, posture, slicked back his hair and would look for any opportunity to humiliate himself as Clark Kent, so that this mild mannered reporter could not conceivably be recognized as Superman. But ultimately he wanted to harness the values that are held by Superman (truth and justice), so that people could see a deeper side to character, as opposed to that of the comic books version. Due to Reeve's determination and undeniable willingness to fight his way through his biggest hurdle, the respect that I have towards him hasonly grown. When I learnt about his death I couldn't believe it, as I had conceived that the biggest news report I would hear about my hero was that he had walked. I am extremely gratifying to Christopher Reeve for the interpretation he has given us of Superman, which will be everlasting. He has since his injury gathered a wider fan base as he has taught us the true meaning of the word hero, and I thank him for that. I also send my condolences to his family as it was there love that sustained him. No doubt no other person will ever truly fly on screen again, and no doubt that we will ever be blessed by such an exceptional human being.Chris, you taught me the true meaning of human spirit and determination, thank you for being an endless hero though my life. Rest in Peace Chris.
Oliver Wearne, Australia (W.A)
I thought that I would drop you a letter tonight... I want to send you my deepest condolences... I found out about Chris by a message on my machine and I thought that it was a lie... After finding out the horrible truth I spent most of yesterday bawling. I cried so much that my eyes hurt!I got a letter from his aunt Dorothy Lamb Crawford soon after his accident and She told me that I was brave because I had Cerebral palsy. There are so me days that I worry about my own future. I live in my parents home and they are nearing their 70s. But I will have to try and keep fighting. I just hope that Chris can help give me strength to keep going. I loved him so much... You had a great man in your lives...Please know that he made my life a lot better while he was here, and will continue to through his films...
Pamela Parrish, Columbus, OH
